If you don’t know what to ask in the early stages of getting to know someone, these are good places to start. "Earlier, you mentioned 18 red flags; my friend only has two of them, so most don't apply to us." That may be true, but even one red flag could make the difference between a wise choice and a disaster when it comes to marriage.
Is it wrong for a Christian to have a roommate of the opposite sex? What is an appropriate level of intimacy before marriage? What does the Bible say about interracial marriage? Are we supposed to be actively looking for a spouse, or wait for God to bring a spouse to us? Can I start dating, or do I have to wait until the divorce is final? Is it wrong for a couple to live together before they are married? Does God have one specific person for you to marry? Can/should a Christian who is a virgin marry someone who is not a virgin? What should I do if I cannot decide who I should be dating? Why is living together before marriage considered living in sin? It’s important that you know if they are emotionally available and if they are truly ready to be involved with someone again.Here are eight things you should always ask on a first date.