Guys who read too much pick-up artist stuff tend to believe this fallacy.
A high-quality woman, however, will not put up with this trivial behavior.
You basically sit through two hours of torture watching some crappy movie about god-knows-what, and when it finally ends and the lights turn on, you’ve virtually spent two boring and awkward-filled hours with a complete stranger! And oh yeah, take all of this advice about not going to the movies, and times it by 10 when it comes to dinner dates! Unless you are older than 50, take her someplace fun like Dave and Buster’s, karaoking, mini-golfing, a fair, a park, dancing, an event, even go kart racing.
Guys who try to play into the nice-guy role are guys who just don’t have the confidence to be true to who they really are. They don’t have to “try” to be nice, they just are.Kissing her at the end of the date is okay, but waiting until the end of the date to kiss her for the first time is not.If you have to wait until the very end of the date to lock lips with your woman, you’ve done something wrong.Why marry someone and spend the rest of your life with them without even knowing if you like connecting with them in the most definitive way?Again, if you’re devoutly religious I do apologize, because I don’t mean to knock your beliefs, but I too am a Catholic, and I just don’t get it!