If you’re rejected after one or two dates, take solace in the fact that this guy doesn’t even really know you. ON RELATIONSHIPS: You don’t deserve anything better than you give. This is hard to hear, I know, but life sadly, doesn’t work that way.And you especially don’t deserve to be with someone who is incredible, and amazing, and on the top of their game, .Here’s a difficult exercise: think about your ideal mate.And then ask yourself if you possess the qualities that your ideal mate possesses.
I’m not saying you aren’t a good person or a good friend, but you knew. But, you protected yourself because you couldn’t bear the thought. That is immensely hurtful, devastating and frustrating, but if you think about it, what have you really lost? This girl shows really unethical and bad character. I later realized what a waste it was making myself nuts over it.Heck, you might even love him all the more for the quirks you would find annoying in anybody else.2.You're more or less aware of each other's relationship history. It’s their pile of crap, their past relationships, but also, whatever their current life situation is that makes them unable to commit to a relationship. ON BREAKUPS: Sometimes people just have pre-existing conditions. A pre-existing condition is everything somebody comes into a relationship with.